The book is thicc with saucy smang advice ranging from perineum-heavy petting to the most innocent art of the kiss. Sex advice for straight women, from people who have penises who like pleasing penises? Genius. Everyone different some people might not like it as fast or with as much suction, for example.Freshly conceived publishing house Lost The Plot has released a compendium of advice spoofed out by an “international panel of gay men”, and it’s aptly titled Just the Tip: Sex Tips for Chicks by Gay Dudes. Plus, that can be a mega turn on for you, too!īut whether they're saying something or not, it's always a good idea to check in and ask if they like what you're doing. If there's moaning or saying, "ohhh yeahhhhh", that's probably a good indication that they're enjoying it. Still don't think you're doing it right?Īsk! You'll probably get an idea from him if they're liking it or not. There are plenty of other places they can blow their load, so get creative! (This is particularly relevant for men who have sex with men). If you're unsure of your partner's HIV status, it's probably best to avoid someone cumming in your mouth at all, especially if you have cuts or ulcers in your mouth or throat. That way it goes straight down into the digestive tract that is very tough on germs."įurther, avoid brushing your teeth beforehand as that can expose the gums or cause bleeding, which can increase the chance of HIV transmission if they cum in your mouth. But if you've decided not to, then Jacqueline has this tip for you: "Make sure the penis is at the back of the tongue, because most of your taste buds are at the front of your tongue. Of course, if you're not using a condom for your blowjob then you have STIs and HIV to consider. If you've got other skills, use 'em ) The age old question: is it spits or swallows? Jacqueline also suggests using your hands on the shaft of the penis, so your mouth isn't doing ALL the work. It doesn't just have to be your mouth on penis." There are other parts of people's anatomy you can enjoy, like balls or ass. "Use your hands you can reach up and stroke their chest, reach around to their bottom. "There is so much more to be involved as well", says Isla. (And by "manually manipulate", she pretty much means touch yourself *wink*). "This might be a pillow between your legs, pushing your body up against the person who's receiving the blowjob, or using your own hands to manually manipulate yourself," she says. Isla suggests you could find yourself in a position where you're pleasuring yourself while pleasuring your partner. It really engages you and grounds you, instead of you thinking 'am I doing this right? OMG, my jaw is starting to hurt!'" Get comfortable. "While you're bobbing your head, there's no reason why you can't be bobbing the rest of your body as well. Isla even suggests putting some music on: "Blowjobs are really rhythmical," she says. The other bonus of being relaxed is there's less of a chance of you getting a sore neck. "There's a big difference if you're receiving a relaxed blowjob rather than one from someone who's trying to simulate a vacuum cleaner." soft, it's flexible and it moulds, and the tongue will work better." It will also change the type of pleasure the other person receives. "Relax around your jaw, your throat, and your cheeks. "You've gotta learn to relax", Jacqueline says. Think of it as a blowjob domino effect of no pleasure. Then if you're not, they probably aren't either. If you're 'in your head' thinking about whether you're doing it right, there is no way you're relaxing, and you're probably not enjoying it. The receiver of the blowjob always loves it when the partner is enjoying themselves," she told The Hook Up.
"If you're already turned on and you want c*ck, it's a completely different experience. But Jacqueline says that if you're doing a blowjob because you think you have to, then it's not going to be pleasurable for you OR them.
You'll enjoy anything more if you’re in the mood - that's a given. First of all, you've got to be in the mood! Here's what sex therapist Jacqueline Hellyer and Isla View, who teaches the 'Art of Fellatio' workshop, had to say when they were on the show. We've spoken to a couple of the most qualified professionals out there on how you can get yourself comfortable and actually enjoy it. Questions can fill your mind, 'Am I doing this right? Did I just use my teeth? What if it tastes gross?!' Well, fear no more.
It's not as if you've been able to suck your own!? (If you can, get in touch. Even if you're a guy and it's your first time getting one in your mouth, it can be daunting. Are you terrified of sucking d*ck? If you don't have one yourself, it can be quite confronting.